Have any other guys notice this about older women these days?

Sorry, but We now live in an extremely high security conscious "code red " lifesyle. Since it's clear NO ONE can be trusted, personally I'm committed to the consensus. If I'm going to hled & forced to undergo inquiries & checks "in the interest of security" as a facet of everyday living, then I have no problem maintaining that mode & not letting my guard down during my waking hours. Helping others with no official security around unfortunately falls into that category. You know as well as I do that the worst happens when it LEAST expected. Your scenerio above is a prime example.. Try to keep in mind, it's not what it is ; it's what it LOOKS like it is.. Too many actors are present. Society wrote this ticket. Nevermind 'what goes around comes around' crap ; you now live in an age where survival is in the forefront. Prevention will always be the superior choice to dealing with an accident or misfortune.. Common sense..